To forgive in no way means that the hurtful behavior is accepted and feelings of pain no longer exist. Forgiveness means that the victim is choosing not to allow the hurt and pain to control or dominate his life. • People who have experienced trauma, abuse, and infidelity will need time to work through their pain and come to a place where they are ready to forgive. This is a journey one must take to be free. God’s Word teaches us how to forgive through example and describes the ultimate act of unconditional